When people are introduced to this lifestyle, they bring in a traditional way of thinking with them. It is easy to get hung up on what a man or a woman should identify as. For example, “women should identify as submissive where as men should identify as Dominant.” That way of thinking should be tossed out quickly. Men are not weak or less maculine for identifying as submissive in this lifestyle. Just as women are not less feminine for identifying as Dominant. We have to recondition ourselves sometimes to move and interact more harmoniously with others of this lifestyle. There is no cookie cutter mold to live it. There is no one way to live it.
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